But there are some things that cannot be allowed to stand. Two comments on the Focus on the Family Astroturf Blog (FFAB) fall into this category.
Background first.
Yesterday, I blogged about the Christian Medical and Dental (?) Society's quest to be exempted from new rules requiring physicians (eat your inferiority-complected hearts out, DDSs) to refer patients for treatments that CMDS members find objectionable.
I had what I thought was a simple solution, first voiced on Twitter…
@fernhilldammit I'm sorry but I'm not at liberty to divulge the names of our members.
— CMDS Canada (@CMDSCanada) March 26, 2015
… then again in the blogpost.
Tell us who you are so we can run a mile from you.
As reported yesterday, FFAB called me a hypocrite for asking for names and promising to publish them when I use a pseudonym.
The illogic of that didn't bother me. Neither did the snide remarks about my personality, writing skills, and psychology, both in the blogpost and gleefully added by commenters. (Comments haven't yet descended into speculations about my body hair and weight; they are admirably restraining themselves.)
One commenter though, John Baglow, wondered what the problem was when the intent is clearly to inform potential patients of probable mis-matches between their needs and the medicos' moral capacities.
Two commenters took it upon themselves to respond.
Here's what can't stand -- implications that I intended some kind of harm to come to anti-choice MDs.
Melissa said:
I don’t suppose that naming doctors would be such a bad thing if there weren’t a group of pro-choicers who were dead set on taking them down. But when you have a small group of people (ie the Radical Handmaids) who are committed to taking these doctors down, to bullying these doctors in a media that is quite receptive to the pro-choice cause and quite hostile to the pro-life one. Nobody wants to get caught in one of those smear campaigns, which understandably makes them reluctant to make their names known publicly.
Mary Deutscher said:
If only Fern Hill were naming physicians to help patients avoid them! The fear here is that physicians are being named to be targeted and reprimanded for refusing to harm their patients.
"Dead set on taking them down." "Bullying." "Hostile." "Smear campaigns [!!]". "Fear." "Targeted."
FFS.
I know, I know, I know. It's just typical fetus fetishist self-pity and martyr-card deployment.
IANAL, but I'm pretty sure those comments wouldn't qualify as defamation either.
But they are on the path to defamation and I call on FFAB's Andrea Mrozek to disavow herself and her blog from them.
Deletion of them and an apology would be nice but I'm not holding my breath.
I intend to leave a link to this post in a comment at the blog.
UPDATE: As of noon, Saturday, March 28, Andrea Mrozek has not responded. My comment with a link to this post was published though.
UPPITY-DATIER: I woke on Sunday to the comment from Joel Kropf (below) urging me to meet Mrozek and this from her at the Astroturf blog:
"Fern, I’m happy to address anything with you, in person. Invitation for coffee still stands.
PS Since so much is misinterpreted over text/twitter/email, I’ll add this is not a sarcastic comment."
Is it just me or is this getting creepy?
No. I have no interest in meeting Mrozek in person. I want her to address the implication that I intended harm ONLINE. The implication was made ONLINE and needs to be addressed -- if at all -- ONLINE.
Mrozek, you created the opportunity for stupidity to occur. It is your obligation to fix it.
Or not.
My physical presence is not required.